Why many relationships are not forever - and that's ok.
In my moments of ultimate sadness the story often leads back to the headline: “No one has ever chosen me”. It punches right to my solar...
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HeardinLondon
May 8
People Pleasing - The secret way to make patriarchal socialisation actually useful
People pleasing is something you were taught, and maybe that not 100% bad
HeardinLondon
Mar 21
Your friends are your value mirrors
From here, we can quite quickly deduce your values list: the barometer of what is important in your life and to your soul.
HeardinLondon
Sep 29, 2023
Waiting for other people to change
Hoping that some particular person, at any one time, will stop doing the things they're doing so my life can be easier. Or...
HeardinLondon
Jun 19, 2023
Connection in Relationships
Connection is vital to happiness and fulfilment, it's not always that easy to connect with others, especially when we feel disconnected
HeardinLondon
Jun 17, 2023
Everything is Relationships
Very few revolutionaries have ever sat around thinking, “Well, this is all really big, so I may as well not try."
HeardinLondon
Jun 9, 2023
Manipulating people for love
How many times have you caught yourself or noticed or acknowledged yourself paying for things in a restaurant you couldn't afford.
HeardinLondon
Jun 2, 2023
The Those People are Like That Drama
I wonder how much looking at big groups of people and claiming to know what they're thinking is a dopamine reward and helps us feel safe in
HeardinLondon
Apr 15, 2023
Why Your Brain Makes What Other People Do All About You
We become fixated on trying to prove our worth to ourselves and to others, and this often leads us to see the actions of our partner as a
HeardinLondon
Feb 9, 2023
How to heal a broken heart
We're taught and encouraged to cut people off, close our hearts, or walk away from someone. And I realised that a lot of the pain and suffer
HeardinLondon
Jan 21, 2023
Just feel your feelings, man
if you don't like how you feel, you can either place all of your well-being waiting for someone else to change and say sorry, or you can
HeardinLondon
Mar 30, 2022
What I learnt from a thousand first dates
I was single for over a decade and I learnt a lot – mostly about myself.
But it took me a long time of repeating the same mistakes before I
HeardinLondon
Mar 28, 2022
What is this coaching stuff all about?
I have had acupuncture hypnosis, tried tapping and camping. I have travelled days to visit spiritual healers...
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