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@HEARDinLONDON #blog


On leaving Facebook
I've been away. And I would normally love sharing my adventures with you all: The beach, the sights, the stories… But something about...
HeardinLondon
Apr 5


A message from future you
How many times have you contemplated that it would be nice to have some photographs of yourself? But you need to wait until you're...
HeardinLondon
Mar 23


Five years of COVID
It's long COVID awareness day and over five years since a virus infected my body. Here are some things I have learnt:
HeardinLondon
Mar 15


Why you don't love yourself
You think it would be easy to love ourselves, right? We've all been trying for so long. And if you're around these parts? I'm going...
HeardinLondon
Feb 23


The Greatest Love Story of My Life
Finding body peace allowed me space to love others more… 10 years, 11 months and 17 days ago I know exactly where / was. It was the day I...
HeardinLondon
Feb 14


Things you need to throw away
Moving house last year was tough. I own too much stuff. And I've treated the task of sifting through the collections of my Mum and my...
HeardinLondon
Feb 9


The tools I used in 2024
2024 was a really tough year for me I could not have done it alone. Here are some ways I reached into my toolkit this year for survival....
HeardinLondon
Jan 21


This blog could change your whole life.
How to create joyful change, without burning the whole thing down. Indeed, this blog could change your whole life, and I'm not sure...
HeardinLondon
Jan 17


What are the Long-Term Benefits of Confidence Coaching?
— Sometimes it is hard to even remember all the mean things I used to say to myself as easy as breathing. “I am just not the kind of...
HeardinLondon
Jan 5


What people pleasers won’t tell you
How rested they are How valued they feel How much they enjoy giving That last one may surprise you, because I think a lot of us would...
HeardinLondon
Dec 6, 2024


A fat girl's manifesto
Just because no one rescued the fat girls in the movies, that doesn't mean you can't rescue yourself. Pleasure and intimacy and...
HeardinLondon
Nov 17, 2024


Maybe you don't have a strong immune system. Maybe you just lucked out.
There is a really pervasive narrative I've been hearing a lot since the beginning of the pandemic: that a lot of people are very...
HeardinLondon
Nov 6, 2024


Before the jump
Who are you when no one is watching? This year, grief ripped me away from myself. And even in the most bleak moments, I knew it was...
HeardinLondon
Oct 14, 2024


Finding Balance: How to Work When Your Body Craves Rest
In a world where we constantly juggle way too many responsibilities and obligations, finding a balance between work and rest can be...
HeardinLondon
Sep 27, 2024

Are you waiting for other people to respect your boundaries?
You’ll find that people with strong boundaries don’t feel the need to explain themselves an awful lot – because they are rarely looking for
HeardinLondon
Sep 22, 2024


Why many relationships are not forever - and that's ok.
In my moments of ultimate sadness the story often leads back to the headline: “No one has ever chosen me”. It punches right to my solar...
HeardinLondon
Aug 14, 2024

Don’t leave those big, scary uncertainty questions unanswered
Uncertainty sucks. Yet life is full of it. So, what do we do with those big questions? I’m talking the kind of “What if I am not good eno
HeardinLondon
Aug 11, 2024

Why We Expect to Be Fixed (and how coaching can help)
I know it's not fashionable for a coach to say, but I don't think you are broken. But I do think it's worth looking into. Why so many of...
HeardinLondon
Aug 4, 2024

Do you need to be busy to avoid burnout?
We all have these well-known numbing out techniques which we know are bad for us, like drinking and smoking and doom-scrolling, but I think
HeardinLondon
Jul 14, 2024

Using Nature as Guide
I'm trying to pay more attention. To the seasons. To nature. To myself. Nature always teaches me. It guides me home to myself whenever I...
HeardinLondon
Jul 5, 2024
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