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@HEARDinLONDON #blog

Perfectionism says: "Be the best"
Apart from when you’re not - perfectionism is not going to be on your side
There is such hype around trying to rise above the crowd that
HeardinLondon
Jun 23, 2024


Why photoshoots are important for personal empowerment
And how we can use photoshoots to reclaim our body image. As an empowerment photographer, I understand the fears and insecurities which...
HeardinLondon
May 31, 2024


3 Phases of Self-Development
In self-development there are quick wins, there are life transformations and there is the bit in the middle. And this is where most people g
HeardinLondon
May 19, 2024


Nature Does Not Reject Me: How to Thrive and Carve Space for Yourself in a World Not Designed for Larger Bodies
The ocean never rejects me. It never runs away and says there is too much of me (or if it does, it returns in the next breath). It never...
HeardinLondon
May 18, 2024

3 weird things insomnia taught me
Insomnia can be a relentless beast, but I discovered some unexpected things which helped me
HeardinLondon
May 12, 2024

People Pleasing - The secret way to make patriarchal socialisation actually useful
People pleasing is something you were taught, and maybe that not 100% bad
HeardinLondon
May 8, 2024


People Pleasers and Growing up English
I think the majority of people who grew up in England find people pleasing particularly difficult as we have so many unwritten rules about w
HeardinLondon
May 5, 2024


A love letter to London
London, I have loved you. But it's time to go. I'd like to say it's a beautiful a uncoupling, but it feels more like you rejected me, and...
HeardinLondon
May 5, 2024

Are you making these common thought errors?
Some of the most pervasive thought errors I have found people bring to coaching sessions also happen to be ones they believe are unique to t
HeardinLondon
Apr 21, 2024

Creating lasting habit change
Why habit change is hard and what we can do about it. It's natural for us to want to change certain habits in our lives. Whether it's to...
HeardinLondon
Apr 19, 2024


Emergence
Reading this may result in the uncontrollable urge to exhale and emerge as more yourself.
HeardinLondon
Apr 14, 2024


Shifting Our Self-Care Process: Investing in ourselves as well as others
In a world which often prioritises external appearances and emphasises the value of people socialised as women is mostly based on their...
HeardinLondon
Apr 11, 2024

Pedicures are not self care
you might LOVE a pedicure. Dream of a pedicure. Feel like you deserve a treat and that treat is selfcare.
But did you notice what just
HeardinLondon
Apr 7, 2024

5 steps to earn your own trust
how do you earn your own trust? Well, like a lot of things in life, it is a skill we can learn and the more the we practise it, the more it
HeardinLondon
Mar 24, 2024


Unlocking Potential: The Power of "I Am Learning To..."
The Transformative Power of "I Am Learning To..."
1. Fosters a Growth Mindset
The phrase "I am learning to..." encourages a growth mindset
HeardinLondon
Mar 23, 2024

Your friends are your value mirrors
From here, we can quite quickly deduce your values list: the barometer of what is important in your life and to your soul.
HeardinLondon
Mar 21, 2024

"I need this to work" and other scarcity classics
The truth is, I often battle against the thought, “I REALLY NEED this to work" I believe in it 100% I know it is transformative. I know the
HeardinLondon
Feb 18, 2024

When you are willing to feel rejected
What would your life look like if you were willing to feel rejected? What would your life look like if you were willing to ask for the thing
HeardinLondon
Feb 16, 2024


Being Misunderstood Sucks
I have always been interested in my response to being misunderstood. Because it pushes all of my buttons. On the surface, I t
HeardinLondon
Feb 11, 2024


Embracing Authenticity: You Don't Have to Fake Positivity to Train Your Brain
Many self-help gurus often preach the importance of positivity, leading us to believe that we must always “think positive” to train our brai
HeardinLondon
Feb 3, 2024
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