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@HEARDinLONDON #blog


Your brain is only interested in keeping you safe - and that does not include emotional safety
Emotional safety is not as important as knowing when to run away from a tiger. And safe, often not taking any risks... like trying to do...
HeardinLondon
Jan 31, 2024


Self-Care in Solitude: Looking After Yourself When No One’s Watching
It's easy to perform self-care when we are documenting it for social media or our mates are holding us accountable, but when you are on your
HeardinLondon
Jan 25, 2024


How to make habit change less boring
When it comes to making changes to our habits and patterns, it's essential to understand the brain is wired to seek pleasure and avoid pain.
HeardinLondon
Jan 20, 2024


Our brains are evidence collectors: Confirmation bias and body image
It comes down to this basic thing. Our brains are evidence collectors. Our brains look for the thing that we are telling them to be true, an
HeardinLondon
Jan 19, 2024


Controlling other people (and other myths)
When it comes to understanding and managing our own emotions, it's important to recognise we can't control other people's behaviour.
HeardinLondon
Jan 18, 2024


4 Body Image Truths
Our body image is bombarded with messages that our anatomies need to be different in order for us to achieve love, or harmony or be peaceful
HeardinLondon
Jan 14, 2024


The impossible pressure of finding joy
The more time I have spent deconstructing societal standards and expectations of joy the more I am able to access my own.
HeardinLondon
Jan 13, 2024


The lies we tell about body image
There comes a time when “I would never speak to someone else like that” just does not cut it any more, and frankly, you have to make a decis
HeardinLondon
Jan 10, 2024


“I can't afford to spend money on myself”
Look at your money
God, it sounds uncouth, doesn't it? But seriously, how much is there? What are the outgoings? Are there any incomings
HeardinLondon
Jan 8, 2024


The Power of Authority: Taking Back Control of Your Life
For most of us, it's common to find ourselves hesitating when it comes to making decisions, and one of the classic ways to do this is by...
HeardinLondon
Jan 6, 2024


New Year and New Beginnings
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 57 As we roll on into a new year, I wanted to tell you about the new rendition of...
HeardinLondon
Dec 29, 2023


Performative Pronouns
the reason to add your pronouns, even if they are the same you were assigned at birth, is to denote yourself as a safe space and someone
HeardinLondon
Dec 29, 2023


You are already worthy
You don't need to do anything to become more worthy, more lovable, more liked, more loved. You just are. And we all just are just trying our
HeardinLondon
Dec 22, 2023


8 reasons why you do not need to make weight loss your New Year's Resolution
Every New Year's Eve, as the clock ticks towards midnight, many of us set ambitious resolutions for the year ahead. One of the most...
HeardinLondon
Dec 16, 2023


Throwing yourself under the bus for other people’s validation
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 62 Hi, my love. This is a compassionate message that you might want to save for an emergency. I...
HeardinLondon
Dec 15, 2023


Learning new things
I wanted to write a blog about the feelings that can steer us away from learning new things. I have heard several people say they are...
HeardinLondon
Dec 10, 2023


Why it's good to be sad sometimes
Quite often, we can think when we feel emotions that we don't like very much that something has gone terribly wrong and they must be fixed.
HeardinLondon
Dec 8, 2023


Numbing Out and Escapism
Whilst I used to have an awareness that numbing out was not a great idea, no one ever really explained why. We kind of know that we are...
HeardinLondon
Dec 6, 2023


The difference between the "Truth" and wanting to be right
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 53 We're quite often told that we shouldn't try and put our energy and our efforts into trying to...
HeardinLondon
Dec 1, 2023


How to get unstuck: when decisions do not come easily
Making decisions, feeling stuck in a rut can be a frustrating and disheartening experience and a really common one for so many of us.
HeardinLondon
Nov 30, 2023
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