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@HEARDinLONDON #blog


Allowing others to lean on us without falling over…
SelfCareSchool.co.uk's Self Care Sundays Postcards: 6th August 2023
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HeardinLondon
Aug 5, 2023


Why You Can Achieve Your Goals and Still Feel Terrible
It's a common misconception that reaching our goals will automatically lead to happiness™️ and fulfilment. The truth is, accomplishing what
HeardinLondon
Aug 5, 2023


Why you need to stop being mean to yourself (why self-criticism is not the way to self-love)
Here's something I've noticed that we do that isn't all that useful, and that is to believe that our inner critic, your self-criticism, the
HeardinLondon
Aug 4, 2023


What is it You Want? (and why we stopped asking for our own needs)
We are taught to believe that if we don't have needs and make ourselves as small and unburdensome as possible, there is a chance we can
HeardinLondon
Jul 29, 2023


When Your Heart Cannot Stop Being Tested by Big Emotions
Is there any space in there for you to be able to just anchor onto one little thought of "this is me experiencing life"
HeardinLondon
Jul 28, 2023


You Can't Hustle Your Way to Eternal Happiness (why burnout is not the prize)
It seems like only a few years ago, the word “hustle” seemed to show dedication, resilience and strength in character. But somewhere along t
HeardinLondon
Jul 27, 2023


How to Make Space for Others
SelfCareSchool.co.uk's Self Care Sundays Postcards: 23rd July 2023
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HeardinLondon
Jul 23, 2023


What do you really want? (how to communicate your needs without undermining yourself)
Sometimes criticising ourselves can be a habit rather than a conscious choice, and I have found it is useful to create disruptors to pattern
HeardinLondon
Jul 22, 2023


How to stop chasing happiness
life is that it involves a full load of different emotions. There is fear, anger, disappointment, confusion, excitement, apathy, joy
HeardinLondon
Jul 21, 2023


Body Image and Mindfulness
We are told that we need to constantly monitor what we eat, how much we exercise, and how our bodies look. All of which often includes...
HeardinLondon
Jul 18, 2023


What to do when you cannot decide what to do
The reason why we make things really complicated is because we think that there's a right decision and a wrong decision.
HeardinLondon
Jul 14, 2023


When it is time to say goodbye
Saying goodbye is hard. But in the words of an author who is beloved to me, Cheryl Strayed “Sometimes you need to be willing to break...
HeardinLondon
Jul 12, 2023


How to Look After Yourself When You're Busy: Self-Care Tips for a Busy Lifestyle
It can be exhausting trying to take jigsaw together life, work, health, family and the cost of living, And this can be this underlying back
HeardinLondon
Jul 1, 2023


What to do when you feel overwhelmed
We've all experienced feeling overwhelmed and having a never-ending to-do list. If you don't want this to be your narrative forever, perhaps
HeardinLondon
Jun 30, 2023


How much emotional baggage are you willing to unpack?
By calling it “emotional baggage”, we immediately label the emotions as heavy, inconvenient, cumbersome, and something to be manoeuvred.
HeardinLondon
Jun 28, 2023


The discomfort of other people’s opinions
have you ever stopped to think about why you look for external validation? It's easy to fall into this trap, especially when we're feeling
HeardinLondon
Jun 23, 2023


Connection in Relationships
Connection is vital to happiness and fulfilment, it's not always that easy to connect with others, especially when we feel disconnected
HeardinLondon
Jun 19, 2023


Everything is Relationships
Very few revolutionaries have ever sat around thinking, “Well, this is all really big, so I may as well not try."
HeardinLondon
Jun 17, 2023


How inspirational memes can actually be useful
Even though these lovely inspirational quotes on our wall might be something that we can see the benefit of, if we were to believe them.
HeardinLondon
Jun 15, 2023


For the "I hate having my photograph taken" people
the truth is that underneath the words, is the thinly veiled whisper “I don't like how I look.” - which is what so many of us are taught to
HeardinLondon
Jun 15, 2023
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