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What kind of listener do you want to be? An open or closed one?
How to listen from the heart  What kind of listener do you want to be? An open or closed one? Someone who asks a question so you can...
HeardinLondon
Dec 15, 2024

Drop That Shit and Run - how to ask for help before a crisis
How I learnt to ask for help and how you can too  I'm notoriously hard to support. My friends tell me often. I used to pride myself in...
HeardinLondon
Dec 1, 2024

How much to tell people
Spam Filter For Your Brain - Episode 104 I think most of us have faced a situation where we're going through something or other and we...
HeardinLondon
Nov 22, 2024

Strengthen Your Decision-Making: Empower Yourself to Make Confident Choices
next time a scenario presents itself to you, and you feel like you are spinning in indecision, maybe try asking yourself: If I knew I had my
HeardinLondon
Sep 16, 2023


What do you really want? (how to communicate your needs without undermining yourself)
Sometimes criticising ourselves can be a habit rather than a conscious choice, and I have found it is useful to create disruptors to pattern
HeardinLondon
Jul 22, 2023


Asking for a bursary is a practise in receiving
I believe that a toxic mix of capitalism, patriarchy and ablism mean than people have been convinced that taking up their space denies a spa
HeardinLondon
Feb 27, 2022


On Knife Crime
I got surrounded by a group of young men a few weeks ago. One pulled a knife on me, as three others were reaching into the back for...
HEARDinLONDON
Apr 8, 2018


More than words
They’re just words, right? No one really means any harm. They’re just words.
Only words can be powerful and they create strong images.
HEARDinLONDON
Aug 20, 2013


For the love of trolls
Last night I got a death threat on Twitter. Worse than a death threat in fact, it was an explicit threat to murder someone I care about.
HEARDinLONDON
Oct 21, 2012
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